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My Birthday Wishes for 2024 Are…(I have two)

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Folks, I said this a few days ago on Facebook, and I’d like to repost what I said at my blog. (My Facebook page, BTW, in case you haven’t been there, is here.)

So, here goes! (Repost follows…)

Thank you all so much for the warm birthday wishes. This was one of the best birthdays I’ve ever had, and I appreciate that very much.

I’d like you to do two things now, if you can. First, go help my friend Betsy Lightfoot. Their house burned down due to arson. She and her family have done a lot of good for others. They really, really didn’t deserve this. (Finances precluded them to have home insurance, though they had been about to get it back.)

https://www.givesendgo.com/GD2AK

Second, support a writer, any writer, that you’ve not read before. (Am I saying this because I’m a writer myself? Well, yeah…) Go read something if you have KU from someone you’ve never heard of. Maybe you’ll find a new fun author to try, maybe you don’t…but at least you’ll have given someone a thrill that their work has been noticed.

If you don’t have KU, find something that’s the equivalent of $4 USD or less, and when you get paid, providing you have enough money for a book or story, go buy it then.

There are so many writers who don’t get read who are really good, thoughtful writers. They have senses of humor. They have emotional depth. They have wit, and charm, and historicity and characterization…all writers want is for someone to read them. If you like what you read, great! But at least being read helps, as it makes us feel less like we’re shouting into the heart of the Void (and are thus completely unheard).

That was the end of the repost, but I wanted to say a few more things now. The writers I know well include Chris Nuttall, Leo Champion, Kayelle Allen, Rosemary Edghill, and Katharine Eliska Kimbriel. If you haven’t read any of their books, go find one right now and buy it or borrow it. (Chris and Leo have had things available on Kindle Unlimited now and again, and Kayelle might, too.) In addition, as I used to work with Jason Cordova over at Shiny Book Review, I’d like to recommend his work to you. (My favorite is the one about the little kaiju at Christmas. A girl had hoped for a dog, got a kaiju, and found out it was exactly what she wanted or needed. It’s a feel-good story about hope.)

You will enjoy what they’re doing. They all write well, come up with extremely immersive worlds, and will take you out of your own head for hours or days (depending on how immersed you are).

Now, as for my friend Betsy Lightfoot’s situation? I feel terrible that she’s in this position, having to deal with a house that’s seriously damaged, not knowing if the person who caused this fire will be arrested (or when)…time is at a premium, and she lost pretty much everything she owned. If you can help her, please do. If you can’t, say a prayer for her, and think good thoughts…she’s a gifted writer who was getting close to putting her first novel up for sale. I’ve read it and I liked it very much, enough to edit it for her and give whatever help I could.

Ask yourself, please, what you’d do in such a situation. Then think about this: Betsy and her family have gone out of their way to help people. There are people who get help all the time who don’t need it nearly as badly as Betsy does right now.

That’s why my birthday wishes are two: Help Betsy out. Find a writer who’s new to you and go buy something, anything…or borrow it via KU, if you have that.

We writers have to stick together. That’s why I’ve written this post.

The IOC Is Wrong. Jordan Chiles Deserves Her Medal

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Folks, I am livid.

I watched the Summer Olympics, as many did, keeping a close eye on the gymnastics competition. (They now want to call it “artistic gymnastics” as opposed to the rhythmic gymnasts who use ribbons and balls and such. I think we can tell which is which, but whatever.) The American gymnasts were excellent. Simone Biles was her usual self, competing with Rebeca Andrade (pronounced “An-dra-jee”) of Brazil, and Suni Lee, Jade Carey, and Jordan Chiles all had excellent Olympic performances as well. (I don’t mean to slight the other gymnast, Hezly Rivera. She won an Olympic gold team medal and did her best.)

So, what made me livid? How about this: In the final competition, which was the floor exercise, the judges from the International Olympic Committee screwed up. They messed up the scores to the point that Jordan Chiles’s coach had to appeal to get a point put back. (A tenth of a point, actually.) Ms. Chiles won the bronze medal, got her medal, Simone Biles got the silver, and Rebeca Andrade got the gold.

So far, so good.

The Romanian gymnasts (they were in fourth and fifth) were very unhappy. The judges didn’t score them right either. One of them was said to have a foot out of bounds when she hadn’t gone out of bounds. The other had just had her medal taken away, by her view, and also felt some of how she’d been scored was wrong.

My solution would’ve been to give all three medals, as the judges obviously screwed up.

Instead, the IOC’s decision is to try to strip Jordan Chiles of her medal. I don’t approve of that at all.

Pat McEnroe, former tennis pro and brother of John, has said the judges are the real problem here. I agree. They did not do the right thing. They messed up. Yet Jordan Chiles and the two Romanian gymnasts have to pay the price for the judges’ inaccuracy and stupidity.

That’s what makes me livid.

There are a lot of things that upset me. One of my good friends’ homes burned down recently; I need to write a blog about that, one longer than this one if possible. (I will mention her GiveSendGo info: https://www.givesendgo.com/GD2AK) If you can help my friend Betsy and her family, please do…ultimately that matters a ton more than any sport.

But the reason I said this today, about Ms. Chiles, the IOC, and everything else, is because it angers me when bad things happen to good people. We expect sports to be as unbiased as possible. We don’t expect the IOC to have their thumb on the scale and do wrong things to athletes who went to the Olympics, did their best, and now are told to return medals (or whatever else).

So, that’s why I wrote this blog about Jordan Chiles. She is an inspiration to many, did her level best, was awarded the medal, and deserves to keep her medal.

The IOC is wrong, wrong, wrong, a thousand times wrong, and should be going after the judges who mis-scored the event rather than trying to get back a medal Ms. Chiles rightfully earned.

Written by Barb Caffrey

August 15, 2024 at 4:48 pm

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